aaangyl:- Name five of the most beautiful things about yourself, things that you also seek out and appreciate mirrored in others.
I'm not feeling very beautil at the moment, so I will just put the aspects of myself that I try to stress and improve apon.- Kindness: Compation, mercy, and charity.
- Inteligence/Wisdom: What you person knows, their reasoning ability, and the willingness to learn new things.
- Creativity: Creative self expression.
- Active: Not just wanting to sit on the couch watching TV.
- Adventurous: A willingness and desire to go do new things and explore.
- Kindness: Compation, mercy, and charity.
- Tell me what the hardest thing you've experienced so far in 2003 taught you.
It's a tough one. I lost my job. I lost my home. And I lost the woman I love. I would have to say it breaking up with Heather was and still is extremely hard. - If you could release yourself from one major hangup for the rest of your life (in exchange for a new major hangup, of course, cuz that's life), what would it be, and why? What do you think that hangup is rooted in?
I tend to base my self worth on what I think others think of me. Why? I was the geeky, scrawny, outcast kid growing up. With no friends, and dailly getting beat up. Once I got to college, I started meeting people and hanging out with people. The attention and feeling like I belong was/is like a drug. I feel happy amoung friends and when I feel loved. And when I am not loved or amoung friends, I tend to feel there must be something wrong with me and get depressed. - What makes you feel the most sacred? How do you make yourself feel like the God(dess) you are?
When I make others happy. I feel good. I suppose it could be close to feeling sacred. - Do you have a "The List"? If you do, post it where I can see it. If not, answer explaining why not. If not, I additionally challenge you to start working on one over the course of the next week, and post it next Thursday. (I don't mean the "fuckable qualities" List, I mean the "stuff I want, need, desire, and sprinkles on top" from a Good Relationship List.)
Not really. As long as they cover most of the five things listed above. On, and a beautiful smile. That's a big one. Some people guys talk about boobs or, ass, or figure. You spend 5%-10% of the time looking at the body. But you spend 90%-95% looking at the face, and that is how I usually base a visial evaluation on. So, a smile that lights the room, and causes their eye to twinkle ranks as the most important physical trait, usually. But mental aspects usually rate higher than physical aspects. I find my view of a persons personality greatly colors my view of them physically. A "hottie" with a shitty attitude will often look ugly, and someone ofa less conventional beauty will appear amazing if they have a great attitude.
